The world’s youngest dad

In 2009, a 13-year-old boy in East Sussex, England, Allie (Allie Patton) became famous overnight, not because of how much he contributed and achieved, but because he set a Guinness World Record – the world’s youngest dad.

Allie and his girlfriend Chancellery Statesman, who is 2 years older than him, are our neighbors, and they grew up together as childhood friends and usually get along very well. They often play at each other’s homes, and sometimes stay overnight at each other’s homes because it’s too late. Since both of them were children, both parents didn’t think much about it and didn’t stop it.

But let both parents did not expect, the two children’s thoughts to be more “precocious”, hidden from their parents “secretly taste the forbidden fruit”.

One day, Chantilly said to Allie: “I’m pregnant with your baby, you’re going to be a father!” The news left Allie a little confused because it meant nothing to a child who was only 12 years old at the time. But Allie was still very much in charge and said to Chantilly, “You have the baby, and I’ll raise it with you!”

At first, the two were afraid of being scolded by their parents and hid it together, but as Chantilly’s belly grew bigger every day, the matter could no longer be hidden, so they confessed the truth to both parents. Although the parents were very helpless, they finally agreed to give birth to the child. Soon after, Chant gave birth to a baby girl, and 13-year-old Alfie became the focus of media attention, becoming “the world’s youngest father”!

Allie’s parents use “gimmicks” to create hype

Allie became a father at the age of 13 and became “young and famous”, breaking the long-standing perception of the age of marriage and childbirth, and instantly became the focus of media coverage, with photos of Allie holding a baby at a young age constantly appearing in various media, while raising questions from the public.

However, Allie’s parents didn’t realize how much psychological pressure the story would put on a 13-year-old boy, and how it would negatively affect their child, but instead wanted to use the “stunt” to make a fortune.

So, Allie’s parents said to the reporters who were interviewing him: “Whoever pays a high price will be the first to interview my son and get first-hand news!” The hapless teenager, however, only cared for his newborn daughter and acted like a good father in full.

Faced with public pressure, Allie was forced to drop out of school and stay home to take care of his daughter

For many 13-year-old, they should be doing well in school and living a carefree student life every day. However, Allie was teased by his classmates for being a father at such a young age and was deeply involved in public opinion. Over time, he could not psychologically withstand the pressure from all sides, was not interested in going to school, and began to miss classes and be truant.

Although Allie often misses school, he rarely goes out, for one thing, he does not know to face the public opinion around him, and for another, he has to take care of his daughter every day, such as washing, breastfeeding, changing diapers, etc. Over time, he simply dropped out of school at home, trying to learn to be a good father.

The sudden truth hit Allie hard

As the heat of the matter has been unabated, many people want to be “famous”, and want to take advantage of the matter to rub it in the heat, and then one after another, eight teenagers face the media, saying he is the biological father of the baby girl.

As rumors continue to ferment on the Internet, so Allie became annoyed, to maintain the reputation of his girlfriend Chantilly, to prove that he is the biological father of his daughter, Allie took his daughter to do a paternity test.

However, the results of the paternity test, that Allie was hit twice, and the results show that he is not the biological father of his daughter. It turns out that his girlfriend, Canticle, was living an indiscreet life, and a DNA match confirmed that a 15-year-old boy named Tyler Shell was the biological father of his daughter. Allie was cheated and took the blame innocently. Feeling unable to face Allie, his girlfriend Chantey took his daughter and left.

After the shock, Allie loses himself

Allie from the “happy father” knows that he was cheated on, from having a daughter to suffering the loss of his daughter’s blow, so he became a little broken.

The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. As the heat of the matter gradually cooled down, he also slowly faded out of the public eye.

Eleven years later, when people paid attention to Allie again, they found that he had been very depressed and had never come out of the shadow of that incident.

Today, Allie is not only a hobo with nothing to do all day, but also made some illegal and criminal acts because he often fights and makes trouble in the street. He was once photographed in front of the courthouse, drunkenly shouting abuse at an elderly man and smashing street railings and roadside vehicles. And he was also convicted and jailed for burglary as well as possession of imitation firearms.

In response, many sensitize rs have commented.

Monetize “love smile”: should have had a carefree student day, but because of his innocent take the blame and ruined a good future, and since then become stumble, really sorry for him!

Monetize “Wang Feng”: their daughter as a baby but found not their own, the loss of their daughter and lost his girlfriend’s blow, who can not stand, not to mention that he was just a 13-year-old child!

Monetize “twisted head peanut”: his regret from his parents, in his most need of care and attention, but his parents did not give him real help and correct guidance but used his “gimmick” to make a fortune, such people do not deserve to be parents!

The experience of Allie is worth thinking about for all of us, and all parents should reflect on how to properly guide and avoid the problem of “early love” in the process of educating their children.

What should parents do to avoid their children’s “early love”?

Every child needs to do what he or she wants to do at what age, otherwise, it will be easy to grow out of the normal trajectory of his or her growth, thus causing great harm to his or her psyche and body, and hurting life.

The child’s “early love” is a problem that many parents have encountered, so how should parents treat this problem?

1) Give the child enough sense of security

Parents should create a warm and harmonious family environment for their children in the process of growing up so that children can get enough security from home and their parents.

(2) face the problem of “early love” of children, rational to deal with

Parents should actively and positively communicate with their children to give them some respect and understanding, so that children understand what is the most important thing at the moment, with a caring and loving attitude to guide them to correctly deal with the problem of “early love”.

3) as a friend, “reason and emotion” to help children deal with the “early love” problem

The first thing you need to do is to find out that your child is in love with you, so parents should not laugh and discriminate against your child, nor should they interfere in a violent way to forcefully break it up. The first thing you need to do is to help them deal with the relationship as a friend, “with reason and emotion” so that the child understands the dangers of “early love”.

Parents are the first teachers of their children, but also the people who have been with their children for the longest time, the parents’ words and actions, every move will affect the growth of children. So parents need to set a good example for their children and guide them correctly so that they can do the right thing and enjoy the happiness they deserve at every stage of growth.